People conditionally share on two categories: those who never is late, and those who is late everywhere and everywhere. Certainly, in a life of any person there can be something unforeseen, that will prevent it to come on a meeting in time, - for example, the chief will suddenly cause for the report, the lift will get stuck between floors or the bus will leave from under a nose. These are the natural phenomena. But there is it not too often, and we are late usually simply so, for not clear reason for ourselves.
To get rid of a bad habit it is necessary to find out, first of all, why it has appeared. Psychologists assure, that propensity to delay - a character trait. It if is not hereditary it was for certain brought up by various circumstances for many years. Probably, someone from parents did not differ discipline, and it can follow to its example. The same it is possible to tell and about punctuality.
The Reason of delay can be and psychological . Most likely you at intuitive level simply would not like to go there, and you subconsciously delay time of an exit from the house.
having realised the reasons of delay, it is necessary to accept the defect as a reality and persistently to start to struggle with it. Your motto should become: «Accuracy – politeness of kings!». Decide for itself what henceforth to come in time should become for you a point of honour. Translate arrows of the hours forward for the period of average delay, namely for 15 minutes. Do not plan some affairs simultaneously if are not assured, that all will be in time.
each time when win a habit to be late, award itself with the small present, any lovely kickshaw. Then accuracy will associate with something very pleasant.
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